This morning (Feb 13th 2018) I started reading The Subtle Art of Not Giving A F*ck. by Mark Manson. Already I have to say that for me it's already the best success/personal development book that I have ever read. That's because I simply give too many f*cks. And this book is not about being indifferent it's more like to really give a f*ck about important stuff you got to let the little sh!t go.
Best quote from my read this morning: (I am editing for Facebook, not because I give a f*ck) "And while there's nothing wrong with good business, the problem is that giving too many f*cks is bad for your mental health. It causes you to become overly attached to the superficial and the fake, to dedicate your life to chasing a mirage of happiness and satisfaction. The key to a good life is not giving a f*ck about more: it's giving a f*ck about less, giving a f*ck about only what is true and immediate and important." Takeaways for me this morning I have a good business that I have not been working on because I give too much of a f*ck about what others think of the business model, because to do it in a way that best fit's me and my values I need to do it differently than most do it, because parts of the model/culture I also have issues with. But overall it's a great business, one that I know I can do, that I believe in, that helps people, that does good, so I need to stop giving a f*ck about the superficial parts of it and get to it. Thanks to Tonjie Anderson and Brian Van Gundyand a conversation that motivated me to go ahead and get this book. I know you said that you were going to get me a copy, thanks but you were taking too f'n long! LOL, love you both!
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I say on this site that I spend most of my time on FB and that seems to be true. Lately I have been reading an excellent book and posting my insights as I read on Facebook but not here. Well I decided that I am really enjoying this, and want to be able to more easily refer back to those posts and have them be more easily found so I am going to share them here as well. For this and other books. So now I will be pulling several over at once and after I will post both places as I go. I should be getting far more use from this blog now.
I am not trying to be morbid, but there is a killer storm named Irma headed our way and I want to take this opportunity to share some thoughts now in the calm before the storm, in the chance that I will not be able to afterwards. I most likely will, but not everyone has this opportunity or takes it, I am taking it.
My biggest thought is THANKS. My family was not perfect, neither was I. We had a parting of the ways. But overall it was a pretty damn good family, better than many others. With imperfect parents who did the best they knew how to do for their kids, so thanks. My parents are both gone, but I still have three siblings and in spite of our differences and not talking to two of you in years, I love you and thanks. I am no longer religious, I don’t believe in God at all. It just doesn’t make since that a loving God would be invisible or send anyone to Hell for not believing in something invisible. But I actually have nothing but good memories of the religion and church that I grew up in. The church family (not perfect but good), pot lucks, picnics, the big old First Christian Church in Eugene Oregon that was great to explore and play in, Summer camp at White Branch (I loved that place) the Youth for Christ program I was in as a teen with the annual Scream in the Dark, so much fun. I even had great fellowship in the very fundamentalist church’s that I went to later. So thanks. Just remember if I don’t make it past Irma don’t use any of that religious stuff in remembering me, it’s a myth. Sometimes a comforting one, but a myth. I was sexually abused by neighbors as a kid, later I came across some old nudist magazines that helped me feel better about myself and brought much healing, I hate to think how messed up I might have been without that discovery. But that also caused a rift in my family and got me into what turned out to be a very bad situation here in Florida, still it made me who I am and I have to say thanks for all of it too. The situation that brought me to Florida was mixed at best, I thought I had come to fulfill a dream, it turned into a nightmare. But in that there was Bill and Alice Martin, while I had issues with the way Bill did a lot of things they where both still there for me, they loved and accepted me just as I was, even after I stopped believing in God, which I am sure was hard for them. So a deep thanks to my second chance parents, I love you both very much. It is in Florida that I really became myself, I didn’t have many friends growing up, but I have many here. I was absolutely blown away by the Friendship and generosity shown to me when I had my car accident last spring. I will not name names here as I know I would miss some, but to my friends in Suncoast Skeptics, SMASH (Sarasota Manatee Atheist and Secular Humanists), Husbay, at work, and more including online Facebook friends who I have never met, THANK YOU so very much! To podcasters and writers like Seth Andrews, Rich and Deanna Joy Lyons, Bart Campolo, Ryan Bell, Cass Midgley, Bob Pondillo, David Silverman, Micheal Dowd, Connie Barlow, and many others thank you for helping me wake up, find reality, and the best in humanity. There is much I know that I am missing but at the root of it all I am thankful for life and not life like a plant or an animal that doesn’t have what we associate as self awareness. I not only got to live, I got to enjoy it, be terrified by it, to laugh, to weep, to have joy, to have sorrow, to think deep thoughts, to think shallow thoughts, and for it all I say THANKS! If I do survive Irma (as most likely will) I aint taking none of this back! The next few weeks are likely to be a struggle for myself and millions of others in Florida. A big reason many of us aren’t leaving is that we can’t afford to. Or we have family that can’t (including pets) or it simply isn’t possible for millions to leave, we would all appreciate your continued support and friendship in the days and weeks after Irma, to that I say thanks in advance. I was born in 1961, basically right in the middle of the era of civil rights protest marches. As such a young child in a smaller almost all white town, with conservative white parents I was blissfully ignorant of the turmoil that was happening in the larger society all around me. I learned of it later in school, like the world wars, as history. And that is what I thought it was, history, in the past. Something that was done and settled, and troubling as it was, we were better as a society for having gone through it. We had become more mature, decent, and civil. Or so I thought. For decades I never thought that I would ever feel the need to participate in something like a protest march. No we weren't perfect as a society, but I thought rights were largely being protected, I thought we were more civil, I thought our environment was being cared for more, etc. But the last few years have been a wake up call that the problems of racism, bigotry, hatred are not gone, or even or perhaps especially the issues of protecting the environment are not solved, far from it, and the election of Donald Trump to be President of the United States of America have caused these issues and many more to raise their ugly heads in ways I have never personally witnessed before. To the point that I know I can no longer just sit on the sidelines as an observer. To say or do nothing is to be complicit. So today I did something I never thought I would do. I went to a protest march, and it was one of the proudest days of my life. To be fair, I had been to one protest before and with the same sign actually, it was at a rally Trump had here at the fairgrounds during the Primary. I thought about dismantling the sign many times, but with the way I saw the election going I thought I might need it again. Sadly I was right. Today for me was far different, it wasn't about trying to stop this man from winning, it's sadly now about stopping him, after he won, and saving our society from the wreckage he has already caused in just one month! When I went I didn't even actually think it was a march, I thought it was just a rally at Five Points park in downtown Sarasota. But then the crowd started moving and the march was on! I do not know how many were there, but I would guess at least a thousand (If it had been a pro Trump march, I'm sure he'd say it was at least ten thousand!) We went down Main Street which was expected, it's a street with car traffic but also a lot of shops and foot traffic it get's closed for events a lot, then we turned on Lemon Ave which was already shut down with the farmers market, so no surprise with that. But next rather than going by city hall or back to the park, we kept on and turned on Fruitville shutting down one of Sarasota's main traffic arteries! This surprised me and it was there that I bumped into my landlord who was also in the march, that was really cool! And everything was remaining very peaceful which was great. But I was close enough to the front that I had a feeling that the police officers were trying to direct us off this street back onto less heavily traveled street. But the lead marchers and thus everyone else persisted, right onto Sarasota's main traffic thoroughfare Tamiami Trail shutting it down! At this point there was definitely some confusion at the front, but the march persisted on, as did the Sarasota Police in keeping the peace. We continued on the Trail from Fruitville back to Main about half a mile! I have no idea if this was planned or approved of or not, what I do know and am thankful for is that it was peaceful. I did not see any violence on the part of protesters or police. I am thankful and commend the Sarasota Police Department for allowing this assembly to proceed peacefully. I am sure there were many who were not thrilled with the situation. Back at the park there were a few more speakers that were hard to hear over mega phones, but one point made that I want to pass on is to get out of Wall Street Banks. This is something I did years ago during the great recession. I will only bank with a small local bank or credit union. Money moves our society and the more it is in the hands of a few corporations, the more a few move and control the many. The more we can move money from centralized to distributed, be it banking, investing, shopping local, energy (going Solar) and more, the better society we can create for more people. So what is the big deal about marching? It is taking a stand and being visible. Visible to politicians, certainly, but also visible to other Americans, fellow citizens of this country who still support Trump and the GOP. We need to be visible and say this destruction of social progress (ethnic, sexual, and gender!) is not acceptable. The destruction of health care is not acceptable. A ban on people due to their religion is not acceptable. Continually expanding inequality is not acceptable. The destruction of our educational system is not acceptable. The destruction of environmental protection is not acceptable. Denial of the facts about climate change is not acceptable. Shutting down scientific communication and advancement within our government is not acceptable. Defunding arts programs is not acceptable. The attempt to repeat lies so often that people accept them as truth and oh so many other things is NOT acceptable. We will not be the nice polite Germans who did not want to cause any trouble, and thus allowed Hitler and the Nazi party to destroy Germany. If needed we will cause trouble, we will persist, and we will resist! We are the people! So in my last post I talked about my tiny house ideas and since then, I have been watching a lot more video's, looking at more web sites, and getting more ideas. One thing that occurred to me is that while I don't think many standard homeowner's name their homes, many tiny house owners do, and I like that. I wanted a name for my tiny house. I was thinking of what living tiny feels like to me vs. living in a larger space and the thing I came up with is that it feels like a nest. A pocket like, protected place that has everything I need close at hand. A snug retreat, A place where everything fits together. The Nest is a perfect name for that! So The Nest it is. Next I pondered, is there a way to have the siding reflect the name? I could nail sticks to the side, but that would easily put me over the width limit. What about an enlarged photo close up of a nest kind of like this? Wow, that could be really cool, but I couldn't think of any buildings I had ever seen that had enlarged photo exteriors, so I was wondering if it was practical. Then it hit me, this isn't a regular building, this is built on a trailer chassis, and trailers have metal siding, not only that but many semi truck trailers have photo images on the side like this example: Man, my imagination went wild, I could do about anything a nest or daisies in a field. Grass, Although maybe not, I'm allergic. LOL. Puffy clouds, An Indian Silk Pattern, I really could do most anything I imagine creating an even more unique and personal space. But here is my clear favorite so far, a forest scene with the Doug from the Cascadia Flag imposed over it, a nest could easily be added to the Doug and this shows what I love the most about my Cascadia homeland. I do not yet know what the life expectancy or cost of such siding would be, but I love the concept and think it is worth exploring. In addition it is likely to be thinner than more traditional siding perhaps giving me just a bit more width inside. One of my challenges now is how to do this, as I want this in Cascadia, and I am living tiny now in Florida and I have come to enjoy living tiny so much that I don't want to go a lot bigger (even a 500 sq ft studio apt. would be a lot bigger to me!) evet to transition from here to there! While many people dream of getting wealthy and having a huge home and lots of stuff, I don't. I grew up in a large home and often it felt like a prison that kept me from living life, due to all the work that needed to be done in and around the house. I am working to build a Solar Business that could give me the financial freedom to have a large home while doing something good and meaningful for the world, but my housing dreams are tiny. 187.5 square feet to be exact! That's smaller than most people's bedrooms in the USA. I have struggled between a tiny house and a studio apt. in a mixed use building. The apartment might actually have a bit smaller carbon footprint due to shared resources, but the vanity of wanting to live in a space that is my concept and that I own, is winning out here. This post is really intended most as an easy online reference for ideas when I get to the point of working with an architect or designer. Now there is a lot I like about tiny houses, but there is one thing I hate and that is the loft bed that most of them have. So I have been coming up with concepts that worked around that, my favorite up to now was this one. The green sofa is actually the bed, which slides out from under an elevated kitchen. The kitchen works out pretty well to providing a two tier theater style concept for viewing movies with friends. It's also about 11x31 inside giving about 350 Sq. Ft. of space. I have been living in about 144 Sq. Ft. the past five years which I really love. A few more feet would be good for some socializing, along more efficient design, built ins, etc. but I really don't want or need to more than double the size of my enclosed living space! Besides, with built in's, better space planning and a high ceiling (mine now is about 7 feet, this will be about 9-12 feet) it is already likely to feel about twice as big. With a screen porch added it actually will be. So below is what I have come up with... Lot's of details to be refined and worked out. Such as wanting totally sustainable and non-toxic materials throughout, one good reason among many to hire an architect or designer to flesh this out. The bathroom has a washer/dryer combo, something I am missing now. There is a clothes wardrobe or closet between the bath and front door. The table between the sofa and front door can be moved and expanded so two or more could use it to eat on using the two chairs and sofa for seating. One note: The kitchen design here seems to indicate a gas stove, absolutely not! My goal is to move away from all gas use ASAP, including car. No, that is a solar powered (Big Grin) smooth top electric! The sofa does turn into a bed and has storage underneath, but it is not the main bed. (I'll get to that in a moment) A countertop runs across the end providing a desk area and a lot of storage under all but the work station area. Opposite the sofa is a floor to ceiling built in bookcase with space for a large flat screen TV. My first design concept here did have the sofa turn into the main bed, but then I saw what designer Ana White did in one of her tiny houses and it is absolutely brilliant! An elevator bed! Bed is totally up and out of the way during the day, at night it comes down right over the sofa without having to mess with the sofa, but if you have a guest you can turn the sofa into a guest bed, and bring the main bed down only part way (there are locking pins to keep it from moving) bunk bed style. Very cool, and cats would love it too! The interior floor, walls, ceiling, cabinets, bookshelves, etc. are all natural light wood, like the ceiling in the photo above. The ceiling is board and beam. Some cabinet doors in kitchen or wardrobe may have a punch of color, but most would be natural. This is a shed roof design with the high end over the bathroom for a storage/guest loft. Very modern, yet woody design. Exterior siding is most likely corrugated steel. Here is a very simplistic idea of the entrance side without a porch. This will be high quality, sustainable, and well designed I love the simplicity. However there is at least one "luxury" that I would really like to have, and that is a hot tub. For that I want a screened covered porch. (which expands the living space a lot!) OK, how to do a porch that adds to the design rather than being just a tacky add on? I recalled the new beach pavilions near where I have been living in Florida. They have a pretty cool design element that could work. On my tiny house it might look a bit like this, with a splash of color on the non-structural pieces. The porch is a basic rectangle 10 feet wide. The roof on left side does angle out to shelter the entry area. The blue area represents solar panels (of coarse!) which would be either on the porch or the main house. The porch roof has the same pitch as the tiny house roof but runs side to side rather than end to end. Those bright add on elements around the porch, are opaque tubes with programmable, color changing led lights inside, that will be fun! It would be something like this video!
FYI, for those interested I created my floorplans using Floorplanner, and my elevations using Photoscape. We very much live in a consumer culture and for the most part people buy what is advertised and sitting on store shelves, or on Amazon. With few other clear or convenient available choices.
We also live in a world that we are literally consuming to death, our death if we don’t change how we consume. The problem is that it is very hard to compete with big corporate players to offer more sustainable and better products and services. To go big, be visible and compete with already very large and very established players costs tens to hundreds of millions of dollars. Which gives well established companies very little incentive to really substantially change and offer truly better products or services than the ones they are already making such great profits from. There is one thing that disrupts this very effectively though, something that can offer better products and services at a very low cost of entry and end up disrupting or taking so much market share that the established big companies have to change themselves or lose profits. That thing is person to person marketing, also called Network Marketing or Multi Level Marketing. Because of this disruptive model big established companies have had to change their offerings or lose substantial market share and profits. A few notable examples:
This type of marketing when done right can help change the world of consumer products and services for the better, far more effectively than anything else I can think of, that is why I am a network marketer. I was first introduced to Multi Level Marketing MLM through my parents as a child, and it was because of health issues that I had with the major brand cleaning products mom bought in stores. A friend suggested that mom try some products from an MLM company the friend was involved with , they did a good job, I had no allergic reaction to them, and my parents went on to build a pretty decent business with that company. I saw what they did and loved the idea from the start, but I prefer a simple life and am not overly driven by the desire for material goods like big homes and luxury cars. (Travel is another issue, though, I do enjoy traveling.) I have never been driven to succeed in anything to obtain a luxury lifestyle, I am more driven by purpose, the desire to make a difference. That said the most money that I have ever made in my life, by far, was with an MLM company, not any job. It also provided me with time flexibility at the same time, which was absolutely wonderful. The company that I did very well with was also very purpose driven. (Sadly they lost their way and got short sighted which caused the business to collapse) For many years since I have sought another company that aligned with my values, concerns, and purpose which really all comes down to sustainability for me. I know above all else that if we don’t become sustainable in how we live on Earth, the Earth will not continue to support our life. Over the years between then and now I tried many other MLM’s and as none where the right fit, I largely did it just for the money so that I could have time/money to do something else that fit me better. That did not work, total waste for me. Many of those companies are in my opinion excellent. But for me, in the back of my mind with all of them regardless of whether it was personal development, nutrition, greeting cards, or even equal access to justice, a hugely important cause, if we aren’t living on this planet in a way that is sustainable for future generations, really what's the point? Well a few years ago I ran across a company named Viridian that was promoting sustainable energy and that got my attention, as energy one of, if not the biggest issues for sustainability, it’s in all parts of our lives, home, work, social, travel, energy is a part of virtually every aspect of our life and has a huge carbon footprint. So I joined as an associate but I was not in any of their market areas and had no real contacts in any of their market areas. This type of marketing succeeds best in disrupting large corporations due to it's personal nature, reaching people you know. So I did nothing. But over these few years they have done tremendous things. Improving their offerings, including adding solar, and more market areas (still not to mine) Creating a great culture that promotes sustainability and making the world better. Reducing our carbon load on this world by over seven billion pounds (so far) I love this company what they do, what they are about. I knew one day the time would come for me to stop sitting back and get involved. That time has come. I have known for sometime that this was not going to be just an energy company, it’s a sustainable lifestyle company. Their purpose is to promote and encourage more sustainable living. I knew that there would be other services and products beyond energy, and I was right! That said the new area Viridian is launching into really surprised me, it is travel! At first I was like ?!?! but it makes since as travel has the largest carbon impact of any industry. It is also something people love to do and want to save money on, so they can do more! (I KNOW I DO!) It is also something that can be life and world changing. I will not get into all that here, there are video’s and resources I can send you to that explain it far better than I can here and this is already too long! What I will say quickly is that Viridian’s success in the last seven years has already forced other energy providers to offer more sustainable energy options to customers. Not only will that impact continue to grow in current and new energy markets for this company, but now that impact will spread to the much larger Travel industry, and who knows what industry they will take on next! This is exactly what needs to happen to disrupt the current offerings of major, established corporations. It puts change into the hands of the customer, you and me, and this is what I want to be part of. This is what I have been searching and waiting for. Making a difference and living a legacy of a more livable and sustainable world for future generations. I hope it fits and excites you too! One of the great things about MLM is that it can be done very part time and lead if you want to put the effort in, to something full time, possibly bigger than you can dream right now. You don’t need any skills or experience to start, there is help and training for all of that. You can not get fired, you can quit or not do enough to earn anything, it’s your choice. It’s not get rich quick (that misconception is a whole other subject) It takes real work, but the rewards both tangible and intangible are worth it. If this ignites your passion, fits your values and your purpose, please contact me to learn more and see if it’s a good fit for us to work together to change the world! David Blood Independent Viridian Associate 941-586-9959 Over the past few weeks I have started to get more serious about online marketing and set a Twitter account and a business Facebook Page for Solar Dave. I really like that, the image, the branding, and solar plus sustainability is what my business is about. Solar Dave defines THAT well. But I am finding that as much as I like it, Solar Dave does not define ME well. I am about much more than that, and as I do things with Twitter and a Facebook page, etc. I don't want to be limited by that. How many would follow or fan me if I was just about solar all that time, I want to be more diverse than that. I want to use those platforms to promote not just Solar and sustainability, but simple living, walkable communities, my take on ethics, justice, kindness, making the world better, humanity, beliefs, etc. Perhaps with a fun tiki twist. Ever since I was a kid I have loved Tiki and the lure of the South Pacific, it's colorful, fun, exotic, and the Polynesians have lived far simpler lives, in greater harmony with nature. That fits my values well. So I will make my "brand" Tiki Dave not Solar Dave. That may not be as good for business, but as I prefer a simpler life and don't have ambitions for a lifestyle of wealth, but one that's far more about contribution and making the world better, that's OK! I don't think that I will totally give up Solar Dave, that's good for business, but Tiki Dave is more about me, so I think I will do much more with that. So I need to redo Twitter and my Facebook Page, I also think I need to go get some more tropical shirts! OK, so this happened to me and could happen to anyone at anytime. This is one time when I am really glad that I don't answer my phone unless I know the number or am expecting a call. Because I had time to think about how to respond without immediate, real time threats. Just about as I am ready to leave for work, I get a call, don't answer and they leave a voice mail. So I go to listen to it and this is what I hear. First part was cut off, my recording starts with "after that you will be taken into custody by the local cops. There are four serious allegations pressed on your name at this moment. We would request that you get back to us to discuss about this case before taking any legal action against you. The number to reach us is 30...." Now I have no F'n idea what this is about, I have never been arrested for, or charged with anything. My first thought was actually that it was a scam, I mean I have had no legal notices delivered of any kind and would a legitimate source refer to "local cops" rather than "police officers", that sounded wonky. My second thought was what if someone stole my identity and did something in my name, that does happen. Regardless, I felt I needed to take this seriously rather than just ignore it. But what to do, I certainly didn't want to call the number they left, I knew if I did, I would be likely be facing scare tactics, threats, intimidation, if it was real and especially if it was indeed a scam. Fortunately I remembered that I have been a member of LegalShield for years. I have had little need of it, have often thought about letting it go, but didn't because of what if. Well this was a "what if"! So I called my provider law firm, explained the situation and gave them the number I was left on the recording. A couple hours later I call a call from an Attorney. SHE HAD ALREADY DONE WHAT I WAS PLANNING TO ASK FOR! She had already called the number on my behalf! I want to repeat that, I was really hoping that I wasn't just going to get advice on what to do when I called, I was hoping I could have an attorney/third party call on my behalf, and she had already done that before I even asked! Simply put, I was blown away! I really hope you get how BIG that is, the attorney making this call on my behalf! She confirmed that it was indeed a scam, when she called the person identified himself as an IRS agent (That must have been in the first part of the message that my voice mail, didn't pick up) and she said simply that the IRS does not work that way, I would have received notices, etc. and the address and agent number he gave her where fake. Etc. She further said that this is happening a lot and they are intimidating a lot of people and earning a lot of money. They are largely targeting seniors who are vulnerable and have few options. She has dealt with clients who either already had given scammers like this thousands of dollars or where about too. And once the money is gone, it's gone, these scammers are basically impossible to trace. She also sent me the following links to report this: FBI FTC Complaint Assist Florida Attorney General And she recommended that I call my local Police, saying that sometimes that can be more effective. Which I will do, recording in hand. I also want to add a warning article on the IRS web site about these types of scams. Right now I am so glad that I have LegalShield and I want everyone to know how this gave me peace of mind in a very intimidating situation, and how professional the service was. I am very thankful for it. Full disclosure, II have also been an independent associate for years. I have not done much with it because my passion is for promoting sustainability and clean energy. But I have to admit this situation made it's value far more real to me and increased my passion for it a lot! The LegalShield links here do go to my official web site which I would recommend anyone checking out for more information. And while this is not my main business, if you are interested in the membership I would be thankful for your business. Please contact me if you have any questions. UPDATE: Got the same call again. Called local police who said I could file a report but there would be no investigation, very helpful. Called the local FBI and they directed me to file a complaint at tigta.gov which is the U.S. Treasury Inspector General for Tax Administration to file a report, which I did. Given that most of these scams are run out of foreign countries and the way they operate, they are not likely to get shut down, at least not without others popping up. So the best thing that I know to do is to try and get the word out and educate people about it. DON'T FALL FOR THIS SCAM! The government does not operate this way, scammers do. Wow, I post to Facebook everyday but haven’t posted here since I came out as Asexual! Many things have happened since including my being on Dr. Darrel Ray’s Secular Sexuality podcast. You can give that a listen here. Educating myself on asexuality and coming to terms with it, I feel helped me understand and accept myself more, and that is good. But I also thought it would help me find an online community of more people that I identified with. It really didn’t do that, because the communities that I found seemed to be largely filled with people who complained about how misunderstood they are, rather than people glad to understand and accept themselves more. Victims rather than Victors. Not liking what I saw there has helped me re-evaluate other areas of my life. Some time back I came across an opportunity that really fit me to help promote Solar Energy and sustainability. I love the purpose, culture, mission, and accomplishments of this company. Just one problem, I don’t live in a market they serve and personally don’t know people who do. So I became a victim of that situation. While I have great friends here, and there is much to enjoy, I have also felt stuck (like a victim) in Florida. It’s a great place to vacation in the Winter, but it’s not a place that has ever felt like home to me. For home I want seasons, mountains, valleys, waterfalls, walkable communities with good history, that are close to major cities with great culture. I am committed to moving from victim to victor. To getting unstuck. Such a life change can be hard, but I have been in the victim spot for too long, don’t like it when I see it in others, and for that to change, to get unstuck, I must move forward. So here’s to change and becoming a victor! |
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