Wow, I post to Facebook everyday but haven’t posted here since I came out as Asexual! Many things have happened since including my being on Dr. Darrel Ray’s Secular Sexuality podcast. You can give that a listen here. Educating myself on asexuality and coming to terms with it, I feel helped me understand and accept myself more, and that is good. But I also thought it would help me find an online community of more people that I identified with. It really didn’t do that, because the communities that I found seemed to be largely filled with people who complained about how misunderstood they are, rather than people glad to understand and accept themselves more. Victims rather than Victors. Not liking what I saw there has helped me re-evaluate other areas of my life. Some time back I came across an opportunity that really fit me to help promote Solar Energy and sustainability. I love the purpose, culture, mission, and accomplishments of this company. Just one problem, I don’t live in a market they serve and personally don’t know people who do. So I became a victim of that situation. While I have great friends here, and there is much to enjoy, I have also felt stuck (like a victim) in Florida. It’s a great place to vacation in the Winter, but it’s not a place that has ever felt like home to me. For home I want seasons, mountains, valleys, waterfalls, walkable communities with good history, that are close to major cities with great culture. I am committed to moving from victim to victor. To getting unstuck. Such a life change can be hard, but I have been in the victim spot for too long, don’t like it when I see it in others, and for that to change, to get unstuck, I must move forward. So here’s to change and becoming a victor!
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